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Today I want to continue my series about financial intelligence or financial literacy, one of my favourite subjects.
Financial intelligence is closely related to emotional intelligence, that means your ability to control your emotions.
I mean control – not suppress. We all have emotions, the only question is: Who is the master, who is the slave ? Do you control your emotions, or do your emotions control you ?
When it comes to money, we all face the emotions of fear and greed.
Fear of not having enough money, or fear of losing it. Because of this fear we are also greedy and we are overly competitive which comes out of a mentality of lack and scarcity.
Once we’ve got money, we spend it – sometimes as quickly as possible – because we don’t master the concept of delayed gratification. Out of lack of emotional control we want instant gratification. Without the ability of delaying gratification, we are unable to build a long-lasting business where we work long hours – for free. Is this an explanation for people switching opportunities like underwear or collecting them like stamps ? Is this an explanation why people get caught in their own spiderweb of multiple streams of income that end up being multiple streams of outgo ?
Don’t get me wrong: A little bit of greed is OK and the ego needs goals that are not “sensible” – that’s a great motivation. The only question is: Who is the master, who is the slave ? Me being the slave of my ego ? No thanks. My ego being my best employee ? Wonderful.
I also embrace the concept of multiple streams of income, but not different MLM Network Marketing businesses or businesses that are closely related to this industry, but businesses in other industries running without me and cashflow from real estate investments run by the best property management team on this planet – passive income.
Why ? To be successful in life and business, you need to focus. People think that in order for them to make more money, they need to market several opportunities. More opportunities, more money – sounds logical, doesn’t it ?
And so they try to even make money from lead generation and focus on building a subordinate system originally designed to serve the main system, their MLM opportunity. They focus on making 10 $ one time with an uninterested prospect rather than building pipelines to come across interested folks so that they attract more people that make them 100 $ or even more on a monthly recurring basis. Do you see and feel the difference ?
With the ability of controlling your emotions and handling delayed gratification, you can focus on one thing because you are not afraid of missing anything or not making enough money. This fear has its origin in an attitude of lack and in the emotion of greed.
I hear you saying, some of you even screaming: Diversification ! Let me put it this way: Warren Buffet says, when it comes to investing: Diversification is for people who don’t know what they’re doing. People who know what they’re doing focus. Chances are that this idea also applies to our industry.
That means: Do your due diligence, check the five pillars and make your choice. Your best choice. An then focus, focus, focus. Give your best: “Work as if all depended on you, and pray as if all depended on God.” (Alfred Stielau-Pallas)
Delay gratification, build a really huge business over time, invest the excess of money in real estate for example and buy your luxury goods with the excess of your investments. By the way, that’s not my idea, that’s the idea of Robert Kiyosaki.
I recently came across a lady who was in two MLM businesses (she loves the products, that’s another evergreen) and a lead generation system business. And doesn’t make a dime though she wants to replace $ 10,000 a month as quickly as possible. Instead of focusing on building one really good business, she winds up trapped in her own spiderweb of businesses and winds up losing. That is losing by design not accident. Is this lady an exception ? I don’t think so when I take a look at several Facebook profiles.
On our last call, this lady asked me about my opinion about a 3rd MLM opportunity.
Next post in this series: Financial Intelligence in MLM Network Marketing Pt. 12 – How To Shop Without Money and Why
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Hi Oliver,
I agree with you 100%. MSI is great but focus most of your efforts on one venture. Success in any one venture is contingent upon how much attention you devote to it.
I also agree on the idea of sticking with one biz within an industry. How can one MLM business excel when dividing your creative efforts between 3 businesses? MLM and business in general is relationship building. Unless you’ve found a way to outsource your body I can’t see how it’s going to work for you.
Great insight!
Ryan
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Oliver Reply:
May 22nd, 2010 at 00:03
Hi Ryan,
LOL, that’s a good one: “outsource your body” Nicely put comment, thanks for sharing that. We all know that a lot of fellow network marketer do outsourcing. The problem with that is that the system becomes less duplicatable. Have a blessed weekend.
Take care
Oliver
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Hey Oliver, nicely written…
l agree with you, this goes not only for choosing and focusing on one business opportunity, it goes for choosing optimal number of strategies – and it all comes to our natural ability to receive an amount of information optimal enough to let us focus and work and at the same time not to make us overwhelmed.
Thanks for insightful post!
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Oliver Reply:
May 22nd, 2010 at 21:17
Hi Milena,
thanks again for your thoughtful comment. I appreciate that.
Take care
Oliver
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Hi Oliver,
You’re right, focusing is key. Especially focusing on what works, sticking to it and acknowledging what doesn’t work and letting it be.
It doesn’t mean dibble dabble in this and that. That gets no results.
Thanks for this great reminder.
Have a great day,
Jerome Ratliff
.-= Jerome Ratliff´s last blog ..Top Secret Business Building Tip =-.
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Oliver Reply:
May 26th, 2010 at 18:28
Hi Jerome,
thanks for your comment. It’s sometimes funny that things that used to work don’t work any more – sometimes overnight. We have to pay attention to our winning formula – is it still winning or already losing.
Take care
Oliver
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Hey Oliver,
Great article,
I particularly liked the part about people ‘losing by design’ and how they spread their efforts over 2 + different MLM businesses. I think it is particularly foolish when people diversify like you explained.
Keep up the great work!
Karl
.-= Karl G Larsen´s last blog ..Uncomfortable? Good =-.
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Oliver Reply:
May 28th, 2010 at 23:24
Hi Karl,
thanks for your appreciative comment. If you’re not knowing what you’re doing you need to diversify, that’s the key. However you are right, as business builders, we’re foolish if we’re not knowing what we’re doing. I just had a call with a lady. She’s all over the place – and doesn’t make any money.
Take care
Oliver
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I agree completely that more than 1 MLM is a big mistake. Funny thing is there is an old saying about ‘not putting all your eggs in one basket’ which makes people think several MLM’s is a good idea but then you lose that laser focus you need.
.-= Charlie Holles´s last blog ..A True MLM Leader – part 4, being the leader =-.
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Oliver Reply:
June 4th, 2010 at 13:04
HI Charlie,
the trouble with this old saying is that it holds true in life (for example when it comes to investing) when people don’t know what they’re doing – this is a classic quote from Warren Buffet. In our industry, when people don’t know what they’re doing , that means don’t know about the five pillars and how to apply them, yes, of course they must diversify.
Take care
Oliver
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